When your baby is born, you look into their eyes, stroke their soft skin, and smell the new baby smell. You think about what activities you’ll do together when they’re older and what they might want to be when they grow up. An engineer? A teacher? A doctor? You always dream of a perfect life for your new child.

They get older and become busy toddlers going from mess to mess while you try to follow and keep some level of cleanliness in your house. You cuddle your way through the tantrums while they figure out how to act in this big world. You set limits and boundaries that are fairly easy to abide…